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 Date: 20250513 \\ Date: 20250513 \\
 Docket: DF 22-06-00999 \\ Docket: DF 22-06-00999 \\
-(St. Beniface Centre) \\+(St. Boniface Centre) \\
 Reference: Chebu c. Touwa \\ Reference: Chebu c. Touwa \\
 Citation: 2025 MBKB 65 Citation: 2025 MBKB 65
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 [5] The Claimant emphatically submits that the evidence of the parties in their affidavits, which were tested by cross-examination, support a date of separation which coincides with her departure from the family home, December 3, 2022. I agree. [5] The Claimant emphatically submits that the evidence of the parties in their affidavits, which were tested by cross-examination, support a date of separation which coincides with her departure from the family home, December 3, 2022. I agree.
  
-[6] There is no doubt that the parties had problems at home. That being the case, I am not convinced that the facts highlighted by the respondent my clear impression that the parties were not finally separated, or at all, until December 3, 2022. In coming to this conclusion, I have considered the parties' habits, what they communicated to each other, their words, their conduct and other factors noted below.+[6] There is no doubt that the parties had problems at home. That being the case, I am not convinced that the facts highlighted by the respondent change my clear impression that the parties were not finally separated, or at all, until December 3, 2022. In coming to this conclusion, I have considered the parties' habits, what they communicated to each other, their words, their conduct and other factors noted below.
  
 [7] The evidence consists of five affidavits from the parties and two witnesses for the respondent. Each was subject to cross-examination. The court also received the parties' written submissions at the start of the hearing. [7] The evidence consists of five affidavits from the parties and two witnesses for the respondent. Each was subject to cross-examination. The court also received the parties' written submissions at the start of the hearing.
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-[11] According to the legal test "[TRANSLATED] the last day of cohabitation" was set by Mr. Justice Kurisko of the District  Court of Ontario in //**Molodowich v. Penttinen**//, 1980 CanLII 1537 (ON HCJ), [1980] O.J. No. 1904 ("**//Molodowich**//"). The seven factors in **//Molodowich//** were summarized in **//Hunt v. Canada (Citizenship and Immigration)//**, 2024 CanLII 138069 (CA CISR) (para. 8) as follows:+[11] According to the legal test "[TRANSLATED] the last day of cohabitation" was set by Mr. Justice Kurisko of the District Court of Ontario in //**Molodowich v. Penttinen**//, 1980 CanLII 1537 (ON HCJ), [1980] O.J. No. 1904 ("**//Molodowich**//"). The seven factors in **//Molodowich//** were summarized in **//Hunt v. Canada (Citizenship and Immigration)//**, 2024 CanLII 138069 (CA CISR) (para. 8) as follows:
  
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 [12] The Court has found the evidence reliable in context of the //**Molodowich**// factors which are thus made objective. [12] The Court has found the evidence reliable in context of the //**Molodowich**// factors which are thus made objective.
  
-[13] The respond has submitted that the evidence on Ms. Chebu's intention to separate in 2019, found in certain documents, must have significant weight. I agree with counsel for the respondent that the intention of a party to separate is a relevant factor in the determination of the date of separation but more important than a party's intention is their conduct in consideration of all the circumstances which must be considered.+[13] The respondent has submitted that the evidence on Ms. Chebu's intention to separate in 2019, found in certain documents, must have significant weight. I agree with counsel for the respondent that the intention of a party to separate is a relevant factor in the determination of the date of separation but more important than a party's intention is their conduct in consideration of all the circumstances which must be considered.
  
-[14] The jurisprudence has establish the significance of a party's intention to separate from their spouse. The principles associated with a party's intention to separate are the following (italics added):+[14] The jurisprudence has established the significance of a party's intention to separate from their spouse. The principles associated with a party's intention to separate are the following (italics added):
  
   * (a) Whether they had the intention to separate and demonstrate convincingly, by their conduct, that this particular intention was carried out (**//Sanderson v. Russell//**, 1979 CanLII 2048 (ON CA); and   * (a) Whether they had the intention to separate and demonstrate convincingly, by their conduct, that this particular intention was carried out (**//Sanderson v. Russell//**, 1979 CanLII 2048 (ON CA); and
   * (b) Whether they had the intention to separate and communicated this intention to their partner in a coherent manner with the desire to separate (**//Field v. McLaren//**, 2009 MBQB 118)   * (b) Whether they had the intention to separate and communicated this intention to their partner in a coherent manner with the desire to separate (**//Field v. McLaren//**, 2009 MBQB 118)
  
-[15] The separation noted in documents filed with government departments  is thus relevant to the issue in this case but the intentions of the parties cannot be considered in a vacuum.+[15] The separation noted in documents filed with government departments is thus relevant to the issue in this case but the intentions of the parties cannot be considered in a vacuum.
  
 ==== III. FACTS ==== ==== III. FACTS ====
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   * (e) The parties had issues in the marriage but the claimant denied that she told the respondent or Ms. Tchikantio that she decided to separate from the respondent;   * (e) The parties had issues in the marriage but the claimant denied that she told the respondent or Ms. Tchikantio that she decided to separate from the respondent;
   * (f) Ms. Tchikantio described a discussion between herself and Ms. Chebu. She affirmed that the discussion took place when Ms. Tchikantio was in Cameroon. Under cross-examination, she affirmed that it was possible that she was mistaken and it was possible that the visit took place in 2019;   * (f) Ms. Tchikantio described a discussion between herself and Ms. Chebu. She affirmed that the discussion took place when Ms. Tchikantio was in Cameroon. Under cross-examination, she affirmed that it was possible that she was mistaken and it was possible that the visit took place in 2019;
-  * (g) A copy of the claimant's passport confirms that she travelled to Cameroon in 2019 and not in 2018. Ms. Tchikantio affirmed that Ms. Chebu did not want to continue to live in the marriage with Mr. Touwa and that she "[TRANSLATED] was firm in her decision and threatened to cause him hill which would make him regret this decision", in reference to Mr. Touwa's choice to refuse to support Ms. Chebu's sponsorship of her mother. Her solemn declaration confirms that after this visit, the claimant left the home without resolving the conflict and she never heard more of her since then;+  * (g) A copy of the claimant's passport confirms that she travelled to Cameroon in 2019 and not in 2018. Ms. Tchikantio affirmed that Ms. Chebu did not want to continue to live in the marriage with Mr. Touwa and that she "[TRANSLATED] was firm in her decision and threatened to cause him hell which would make him regret this decision", in reference to Mr. Touwa's choice to refuse to support Ms. Chebu's sponsorship of her mother. Her solemn declaration confirms that after this visit, the claimant left the home without resolving the conflict and she never heard more of her since then;
   * (h) Ms. Chebu discussed her marriage issues with Ms. Tchikantio and her desire to separate but this never materialized;   * (h) Ms. Chebu discussed her marriage issues with Ms. Tchikantio and her desire to separate but this never materialized;
   * (i) The parties met in September 2023 and agreed to exchange their comparative declarations using a date of separation of December 1, 2022;   * (i) The parties met in September 2023 and agreed to exchange their comparative declarations using a date of separation of December 1, 2022;
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   * (l) At the hearing, the respondent highlighted that some of the claimant's documents were not provided to show a date of separation earlier than 2022. He argues that I should draw an inference against him;   * (l) At the hearing, the respondent highlighted that some of the claimant's documents were not provided to show a date of separation earlier than 2022. He argues that I should draw an inference against him;
   * (m) The evidence does not support the proposition that the claimant refused the respondent's requests;   * (m) The evidence does not support the proposition that the claimant refused the respondent's requests;
-  * (n) Between 2022 and 2023, the parties exchanged financial documents using a date of separation of December 1, 2022. In 2023, Mr. Touwa testify that he did not have any more documents related to the CRA or immigration; and+  * (n) Between 2022 and 2023, the parties exchanged financial documents using a date of separation of December 1, 2022. In 2023, Mr. Touwa testified that he did not have any more documents related to the CRA or immigration; and
   * (o) Additionally, it is surprising that the respondent insists that the claimant provide certain relevant documents to the court yet the respondent has never filed a notice to compel disclosure of those documents for this hearing, nor a notice for preliminary interrogatories in which he could have asked questions and ask for disclosure of the documents.   * (o) Additionally, it is surprising that the respondent insists that the claimant provide certain relevant documents to the court yet the respondent has never filed a notice to compel disclosure of those documents for this hearing, nor a notice for preliminary interrogatories in which he could have asked questions and ask for disclosure of the documents.
  
 ==== IV. ANALYSIS ==== ==== IV. ANALYSIS ====
  
-[19] The respondent asks the court to find that Ms. Chebu is a not credible, that her explanations do not make sense and that she has exaggerated and lied to conceal the truth that she has had the intention to separate since 2018.+[19] The respondent asks the court to find that Ms. Chebu is not credible, that her explanations do not make sense and that she has exaggerated and lied to conceal the truth that she has had the intention to separate since 2018.
  
-[20] He submits that the date of separation is obvious given the Ms. Chebu's letter and declaration to the CRA and Immigration. I find that the reasoning be applied to Ms. Chebu's written documents and also be applied to Mr. Touwa's sworn statements where he gave the court a date of separation of December 3, 2022 in a response to the court filed in January 2023. He explained under oath that he thought that the declaration gave a date of physical separation only and not the date of separation in the marriage.+[20] He submits that the date of separation is obvious given Ms. Chebu's letter and declaration to the CRA and Immigration. I find that the reasoning can be applied to Ms. Chebu's written documents and can also be applied to Mr. Touwa's sworn statements where he gave the court a date of separation of December 3, 2022 in a response to the court filed in January 2023. He explained under oath that he thought that the declaration gave a date of physical separation only and not the date of separation in the marriage.
  
 [21] Mr. Touwa's suggestion that he believed that indicating December 3, 2022 in his response signified only a physical date of separation, and not the actual date of separation in the marriage, could also be applied to Ms. Chebu's declaration filed with the CRA. In 2019, she did not share any income with Mr. Touwa nor did she have Mr. Touwa's tax return so she believed that she could file as "[TRANSLATED] separated". [21] Mr. Touwa's suggestion that he believed that indicating December 3, 2022 in his response signified only a physical date of separation, and not the actual date of separation in the marriage, could also be applied to Ms. Chebu's declaration filed with the CRA. In 2019, she did not share any income with Mr. Touwa nor did she have Mr. Touwa's tax return so she believed that she could file as "[TRANSLATED] separated".
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 [30] The parties stopped sleeping in the same room after April 12, 2020, but the uncontested evidence shows that they continued to act as partners by sharing a family home in all other ways until the start of December 2022. [30] The parties stopped sleeping in the same room after April 12, 2020, but the uncontested evidence shows that they continued to act as partners by sharing a family home in all other ways until the start of December 2022.
  
-[31] Up until December 2022, the evidence demonstrates that the parties continued to live in the family home, took care of their children, bought food for the family, prepared meals and went out into the community with their children. In 2019 and in October 2022 when the claimant travelled to the Cameroon, it was the respondent drove the the claimant to and picked her up from the airport. There was no evidence that they began relationships with other partners before 2023.+[31] Up until December 2022, the evidence demonstrates that the parties continued to live in the family home, took care of their children, bought food for the family, prepared meals and went out into the community with their children. In 2019 and in October 2022 when the claimant travelled to Cameroon, it was the respondent who drove the claimant to and picked her up from the airport. There was no evidence that they began relationships with other partners before 2023.
  
 === Social activities / societal image of the couple === === Social activities / societal image of the couple ===
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 [32] The parties continued to participate in the same social activities, including activities with their friends and in the community and while including their children. [32] The parties continued to participate in the same social activities, including activities with their friends and in the community and while including their children.
  
-[33] Mr. Touwa, Ms. Tchikantio and Mr. Ndonko testified that the parties had problems which were subjects of discussion between the parties. Neither Ms. Tchikantio nor Mr. Ndonko were informed that that the parties decided to separate and the parties did not inform each other on their decision.+[33] Mr. Touwa, Ms. Tchikantio and Mr. Ndonko testified that the parties had problems which were subjects of discussion between the parties. Neither Ms. Tchikantio nor Mr. Ndonko were informed that the parties decided to separate and the parties did not inform each other on their decision.
  
-[34] Mr. Ndonko is Mr. Touwa's godfather of marriage. He affirmed in his solemn declaration that Ms. Chebu contacted him to indicate that she was experiencing  difficulties in her marriage to the respondent by expressing that she did not want more from the relationship. He answered Ms. Chebu's questions under cross-examination. Mr. Ndonko confirmed that he gave the claimant advice to try to resolve the conflicts with the respondent. His affidavit also declares that he did not think that he succeeded in convincing the claimant to stay with the respondent but he "[TRANSLATED] prayed for the survival and flourishing of their relationship." Mr. Ndonko did not have any knowledge on what the parties discussed with each other on the topic of ending their marriage.+[34] Mr. Ndonko is Mr. Touwa's godfather of marriage. He affirmed in his solemn declaration that Ms. Chebu contacted him to indicate that she was experiencing difficulties in her marriage to the respondent by expressing that she did not want more from the relationship. He answered Ms. Chebu's questions under cross-examination. Mr. Ndonko confirmed that he gave the claimant advice to try to resolve the conflicts with the respondent. His affidavit also declares that he did not think that he succeeded in convincing the claimant to stay with the respondent but he "[TRANSLATED] prayed for the survival and flourishing of their relationship." Mr. Ndonko did not have any knowledge on what the parties discussed with each other on the topic of ending their marriage.
  
-[35] Like Mr. Ndonko, Ms. Tchikantio had never visited Canada. They both had no first-hand knowledge of the parties' interactions in private and in the community, and no first-hand knowledge of how they acted as a couple in their marriage. Neither witness could testify on what the parties discussed with each other on the topic of ending their marraige.+[35] Like Mr. Ndonko, Ms. Tchikantio had never visited Canada. They both had no first-hand knowledge of the parties' interactions in private and in the community, and no first-hand knowledge of how they acted as a couple in their marriage. Neither witness could testify on what the parties discussed with each other on the topic of ending their marriage.
  
 === Financial support === === Financial support ===
  
-[36] The evidence shows no changes in their bank accounts, which were always maintained separately since the start of their relationship. Neither the fact that the respondent was not aware of the amount of the claimant's debt nor that it is possible (though not proven), that the claimant's debt was higher in 2022 than in 2019, are indications of separation or indications of that the claimant intended to separate.+[36] The evidence shows no changes in their bank accounts, which were always maintained separately since the start of their relationship. Neither the fact that the respondent was not aware of the amount of the claimant's debt nor that it is possible (though not proven), that the claimant's debt was higher in 2022 than in 2019, are indications of separation or indications that the claimant intended to separate.
  
 === Children === === Children ===
  
-[37] The children were not aware of the separation, according to the evidence, before the claimant shared her plans to rent new housing in December 2022. The respondent never divulged the change in the relationship to the children. In fact, what was said on behalf of the respondent is that he continued to act in the same way to towards the children. He was not aware of any discussions that he had with the children on the topic of separation.+[37] The children were not aware of the separation, according to the evidence, before the claimant shared her plans to rent new housing in December 2022. The respondent never divulged the change in the relationship to the children. In fact, what was said on behalf of the respondent is that he continued to act in the same way towards the children. He was not aware of any discussions that he had with the children on the topic of separation.
  
 [38] It is of note that in 2023, the respondent was waiting for 2019 documents from the claimant to determine his next steps. His waiting for historical documents that he did not have at the time, shows that he did not have the essential element, according to //McMilan// //(and other case law noted above)// - communication and knowledge of the claimant's intentions and of her intentions to separate. [38] It is of note that in 2023, the respondent was waiting for 2019 documents from the claimant to determine his next steps. His waiting for historical documents that he did not have at the time, shows that he did not have the essential element, according to //McMilan// //(and other case law noted above)// - communication and knowledge of the claimant's intentions and of her intentions to separate.
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 ==== VI. DECISION ==== ==== VI. DECISION ====
  
-[40] The date of separation is established to be December 3, 2022. I ask Mr. Nagy to draft the order. If the parties are unable to agree on costs, they have leave to seek an order from the court. To do so, a party may schedule a hearing with the Court.+[40] The date of separation is established to be December 3, 2022. I ask Ms. Nagy to draft the order. If the parties are unable to agree on costs, they have leave to seek an order from the court. To do so, a party may schedule a hearing with the Court.
  
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 Judge of the Court of King's Bench Judge of the Court of King's Bench
  
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